It seems that our society is infatuated with it. When we're in it its a beautiful complicated mess, and when we're not we wish we were (for the most part).
So my question is: why?
Why is it something that we always have to be in?
Why is there such a need for it at all times?
I've been noticing this a lot lately, simply because I've been single for a month and a half now.
It's as if as soon as you're single, everyone is instantly helping you find someone else; as if we're nothing without it. And now I don't mean to offend anyone, but who you are is not dictated by who you date and love. Yes, it may seem as if you are complete with that special other, but then what were you before? Only a piece of who you could become? Maybe so, I'm not sure.
Right at this moment, I have to say that I am looking forward to exploring who I am, who I could become, and what I have to offer in this world. I feel that I would not be able to fully do this if I was with someone (right now at least). I am not saying that love hinders this, but maybe even encourages it; so then maybe I never experienced real love, I don't know.
Being single is not the end of the world as you know it. Life is full of possibilities and it does not take one "special" person to suddenly open those possibilities up. You just have to see them for yourself and go for it.
(I realize that I am not being as clear as I could be; if more curious as to my thoughts on this, message me!)
And now, my outfit du jour.
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